Do love & live long!!!

Love could keep us healthy in mentally, physically, socially and spiritually. Did you know that?.......................... Yes it’s true!!!

Practically if we love someone really, it’s obvious we care more about ourselves too. It’s because, to love our loved one, we should be in healthy. To be in healthy and safely, we may not take the unwanted risks like smoking, careless driving, junkie eating habits, drinking alcohol. So this thing will keep us away from unnecessary life threat. So people will often adopt safer behavior when they are coupled up.

Other thing is, loving and being loved will vaccinate you against anxiety. When we in love, the brain produces chemical called dopa mine  a feel-good stimulant that is responsible for feeling bliss, optimism and patience.

Some research also shows those people in loving have a lower death rate than single people. Even people who have unhealthy lifestyles tend to live longer than those who lack social and community support.

So love as could as possible, and be healthy and long live!!!

Power of Love

 

We need love for our mind and body as oxygen and water. It's obvious. The more connected we are, the healthier we will be both physically and emotionally. The less connected we are, the more we are at risk. And we need love since our birth, but this love profile is changing age to age. So if we lose this love line at a point, our life will not stream smoothly. And it’s also true that the less love we have get more depression we are likely to experience in our life. So perhaps love is the bestantidepressant in the world.

 

If we have a close look, most depressed people don't love themselves and they do not be loved by others. And they also are very self-focused, making them less attractive to others and depriving them of opportunities to learn the skills of love. And the people, who are in love, live happily than the others. It’s because, when we have someone to share our sadness and happiness, we don’t need to suffer lonely, in that way we could minimize our sadness and maximize our happiness.  

 

So do love and be loved as always you could and Feel the power of love.

Do you feel true love?

True love takes time to take well form. Other thing is love at first sight always not really true love on every occasion. In fact, love at first sight is nothing but an infatuation, sometimes. It’s just a strong romantic and sexual feeling.

Sometime true love is hard to define exactly, but there are some signs of true love in a relationship.

If you’re in kind a relationship with someone and want to know if you’re experiencing true love, check whether are there any of these signs in your relationship.

You give every good thing to the relationship in wholeheartedly, without any expectations of getting something back in return from your loved one. Just watching this special person smile out loud fills you with full of happiness, though you’re suffering or having a hard day. You may terribly hurt when your lover did wrong thing to you, but their actions never anger you. You do sacrifices for their happiness, even if they may never know it. As always try to do things and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special. You can’t ever hurt them. When you’re in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them. Payback is a strong human instinct. So get rid of it.  You keep your promises. When you make a promise to them, no matter what, keep your promise. Even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when. In a good relationship, it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help, but see them by your side. you must share their burden. And you do that even if you don’t really need to do so. You if they’re involving with some issue, you’re always willing to give helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into. You must pride of them, when they achieve something. Even you failed to achieve same thing.  

If you’re in a relationship and if you are not experiencing above true love signs, you have to more care about your relationship. Perhaps, your relationship hasn’t reached the state of emotional maturity that surpasses physical attraction or the stage of infatuation.

However, if both of you feel you are doing great in your love affair, just go with it. Don’t try to change anything about it. It’s because, selfless and unconditional love takes time to get well form. Remember, you can’t go into the next stage in love if not both of you are ready for it.

But keep remember that, although above things are there, as long as your lover and you are happy and understand each other, you people have such great love!

Do you want to fall in love with your boy-friend?

Do you like a boy? But he doesn’t care about you? Or do you love a boy? But he doesn’t love you? OK…this could happen often. So what do you do for win him? Here are some few tips to gain it.

Remember that, every boy is thinking girls as sex objects. That’s the truth. If you became a girl friend or a wife for some guy, then he may thinks about you more than sex object. It’s not wrong. And being sexy is jewel for a girl. Simply it’s an asset to a girl. And admire it.  So you must improve it doing something like, dressing well, keeping your body in good shape, avoiding chipped and chewed nails, clean and healthy hair and avoiding unhealthy appearance mainly try to keep your skin in good form. So your dream boy will think about you than before.

Try to choose proper cloths for yourself. You and your cloth must be like voice and the music in a song. It means, cloth should prominent your look. Dress like a girl. Real boys like girls; they don’t like the girls alike boys. A little bit of makeup is absolutely fine. But don’t go overboard assuming you’ll impress the guy with the fancy artwork on your face.

Don’t be a pushy girl; it’ll always be a joke. Mind your language; avoid starting or ending your sentences with cuss words. Use good words, and when you speak with him, have a little honest smile on your face. That is the best way to get a guy to notice you. If you want extra credit, make eye contact. The biggest trait that attracts guys is a girl’s femininity and sensuality. The way you walk, the way you stare at him while doing that thing with your eyes, and everything else that’s girly and feminine matters a lot to a guy.

Let him know that you are available for his happiness and sadness. Get to know about his personal life and his family matters well. So you could close to him. let your hands touch his hands occasionally, it may a good gesture, for let him know that you like him. 

The other most important thing is if you really love him; tell him how you really feel in yourself. Tell him you’re really happy with him. But are afraid of the future because you have no idea what could happen after this. If he has any sense, he’ll know it’s time for him to make some assurances to you. Don’t hide your emotions or play with words. And if he really does love you, he won’t be upset to hear that. Instead, he’ll say something that makes you feel better.

So finally this guy may truly falling love with you, but he may not be interested in marriage. Can you deal with that? If you can’t handle that, and are really serious about getting married soon, it’s probably time to ask yourself if you’re with the right guy for you.

And the same time remember that, every boy is looking for a girl who is dreaming in his mind. That dream girl’s main profile or fact may be about the body complexion, or hair color, slim, fat, it may vary. It means, each other’s desires are different. So if he is not looking for a girl like you, there is nothing you could do here. Don’t try to change yourself for him. It never gonna achieve. You just move and find someone who likes who you are now.

Living together or Marriage

Today in the world, after dating most of the couples, the next step is the living together with a committed relationship. Did you ever think why this happened? People apparently think compatibility cannot be tested without the actual experience of a marriage without any legal bonds. It’s like a trial run of the marriage. However this has a good side as well as bad side.

Living together has more freedom to select his or her legal life partner. Living under one roof is more far away from the dating. It will reveal more personal details about each other’s. In here you can’t hide your real situation. From this you could easily decide what the next fate of your relationship is. This will ease the life of course. So if this period went wrong, relationship would end up like “Turning off a light”. Not much hard feelings. But in a marriage you can’t just “turn off this light”. And of course, in here you have more freedom and the very less responsibilities for both of you. Specially for men. Generally, living together is not much empowering for women. It places them in a vulnerable position, emotionally and materially, and Women generally see moving in together as a step toward marriage, but men tend to regard the relationship as more of a sexual opportunity without the bonds and responsibilities of commitment.

In living together, love will not take much place like in the dating or marriage. Instead, sex and independency will take place. On dating always you have a hope for future; you have more curiosity about the next step of your relationship or what’s going on next. And also Dating will keep alive your love, and in a marriage too. When you have a bond from a marriage, you always do things to your relationship with the responsibilities. And every time love will take the place. After all you may pay more attention to care about your marriage. Coz’ you know it’s not just a living together.

And also I believe, a couple who get married after living together, is more tend to be divorced than the others. It’s because, they know how to survive after the divorce, or how to face the society after the divorce. They had good experience, about the independencies. So in one hand living together is more like to be prepared for divorce rather than the marriage.

But not being living together, could we decide our next step of a relationship? Of course you can. You have plenty of opportunities for that in the dating. You could talk anything, you could do anything and you name it. Only different is you not live under one roof with your better half. However, if you want more freedom and fewer responsibilities and without bonds, only relationship with all other benefits, answer is living together. Couples must decide what works best for them.

Best way to deal with arguments in a relationship

Have you ever thought how some couples fight hardly, but still stay together and loving each other? It’s because they know what to dos and what to don’ts when they are in an argument or they understand each other very well mutually. But most in cases of arguments lead to separations too. So here are few concerns about the arguments for concern in an argument. 

First of all, there is a myth that, always being an argument with your partner makes you a bad partner. No, that is not. But it doesn’t mean arguing with your partner is good thing. It will make you a bad partner or a good partner, in the way you are arguing with them. When a argument is getting heat, just think, whether you carried out this argument to fix the thing or to hurt your partner. From that point, you could have, better way to do this argument. if you are doing that argument to hurt your partner, of course you are a bad human being. Otherwise, if you arguing just for fix the issue, you could turn the argument in to a discussion. 

However some arguments may lead to nightmares, if you do not care enough for what you tell or do, when you are in an argument.

Never threaten to your partner, like “I’m leaving you or want to break up with you”. Coz’ it doesn’t mean anything when you in angry mood. And your partner also may tell the same to you. So it’s never gonna fix the thing whether you really mean it or not. 

When you are arguing, if you feel you may be wrong in something, never try to just confess for hurt your partner. It means, “Yes I did that, so what?” Or “Yes… I have an affair with your friend. So?”  It’ll be like, “through straw in to the burning fire”. Don’t do it ever, if you really want your partner. Never remind the old issues to justify the case. It’s because it will lead the argument to another way, for sure. It’ll only make new points to more arguments.  

  

Never compare your partner to others. It’ll defiantly hurt you loved one instated of fixing or justifying things. If you do so they may tell, “So…You would have gone with him/her, why did you come to me?” You never gonna fix the issue in that way. If someone well known to you, accuses your partner of something, never use an argument to reveal to it, like. “My friend was right about you… but I never believe them”. It will make angry in her for both you and your friend. 

Don’t get involvement of a third person as a mediator or problem solver, in between you and your partner. Because it feels, you and the third person group together and try to explain why you’re right and your partner’s wrong. 

If you’re angry, just say it. Don’t pretend and say you’re fine. It won’t make you feel better nor solve the issue. Never ignore your partner after a warm argument, especially when they’re accepting for your attention. But if you really frustrated or angry with your partner just ask little Moment to be alone. It’s more better than ignoring them and making them feel miserable. Don’t blame again and again when your partner has no more to say about the issue or, when in helpless. Instead of that, make that, to a turning point toward discussion mode. 

Always try being honest with your argument. If you know already that you are wrong in something, don’t just argue to pretend you are not guilty. It’s better to try to confess it. or forget your pride and tell your partner that "I'm sorry" at least. And even if you’re right and when your partner apologizes to you, you need to tell your partner that you’re sorry too because you lost your control or because you misunderstood them. It’s the easiest way to avoid ego. So being honest in an argument, will always help your partner understand what hurt you or what you need, and they’ll be able to discuss the issue instead of arguing about it.

Don’t ever raise your hand against your partner unless self defense. Especially if you are a male it is like, you are showing and using your power over the females. It’s not nice.

But after all do you really love each others? Memorize it again and again, It will solve any issues after all arguments. Trust in your love always.

Getting ready for your first date

Are you getting ready for your first date? So…This is the very first day that you are going to give an impression about you, to lasting forever in his or her mind for life time. So go through bellow tips. It will prepare you for nice remembering first date.

  
If you are a girl or a boy, you pay much attention to your Skin at your first day. You must remember that skin is the largest organ of the human body too. It is the first thing anyone could see at first sight on a human. Whether your skin is fair or dark, it doesn’t matter. But it should be in fresh and clean. And the hair, of course. It should be cleaned too and neat. Clean hand and nails will be an added value for your appearance. And the fresh face, of course. Specially, Take care about your body odor. No one likes the stinky, use a good body fragrance for maintain the body odor.

 
The other important thing is your native assets, if you’re a guy, your body shape and the height. Dress with cloths to improvise your figure. And if you’re a girl, boys will defiantly looking at your breast, hip and the butt. So pay attention to select dress for get more attraction for those assets. But take care for not giving so sexy look on the first date. It’s because, some boys may not like in that way. 

   
And always try to have nice charm smile, it will be a jewel for your face.  And the way you talk, try to listen carefully and answer, or chat. Don’t be a chatter box. Lot of boys don’t like to have a girl who have a chatter box. If you’re a boy respect the girl as much as possible, give an attention to her desires. They admire it. And if you have personal skills let them know about it. Everybody likes to have a person with unique skills, like painting, playing music instruments, Etc…specially Girls want a guy who knows how to keep his woman happy.

If you are a boy always try to wear branded materials, watches, trousers, shirts. It’s because basically women like wealthiness. On the other hand they think, “If He could pamper himself with luxuries, he would pamper me too with luxuries”. But keep remember that dress for the occasion. And always be comfortable with your dress. It’s because, if you are uncomfortable with your dress, it will be shown up on your face for sure. 

The other important thing is the venue. And this part is directly goes to the men’s side. If you go to a restaurant with your girl, you may ask the waitress to do some value added services for your table, like more flowers, more candles. Try to show how this meeting is important to you and how you care about her happiness. And for the girls, admire whatever he did for your convenience or happiness.
 

After above all keep remember to be yourself. Don’t try being another. Good luck girls and boys.

Giving a space to the love

To be having a perfect relationship with your lover, you and your lover need to understand how to give space in a relationship. Space between two lovers is important as well as love between two lovers. This two will build a perfect and meaningful relationship.

Lot of people has a belief of that lovers need to completely depend on each other to feel actual love and happiness. Of course, good relationship needs dependability, but the same time it needs some space away from each other too. Otherwise it may be felt trapped in the love. Both lovers need to do much love each other and yet grow as individuals at the same time. Fail to do so, you’d end up getting annoyed with your partner who seems to be depending on you to do everything for them. Initially every lover wants to do everything for their lover. It’s obvious. But eventually this may be annoying. So don’t go to that stage. Try to avoid dependability for each and every little thing.

Other thing is we may love to spending time with our partners, but there are always times in every relationship when we just need to give some space to help each other grow as individuals. It’s because, Sometimes too much of a good thing isn’t such a great thing. Spending all the time together can bring both of you close, but can damage your individuality. By sharing all the activities, you don’t really know what you or your partner enjoys doing. So it may like you just do everything for just stay together. It is like your trapped your own love.

Perhaps, your lover may be screaming for space in a relationship, even if they don’t say it out loud. But at some point they may say “I want some time alone”, or “I need to focus on my career”. They may say like that, it’s not because they want to leave you. But they need a freedom of being themselves. To avoid those painful wordings, always it’s better to understand the importance of the space between you and your lover.

 Knowing how to give space may be extremely difficult, especially at the beginning. But considering the stakes and what you may stand to lose, you should train yourself to become adept at this art. If this is not rightly balanced out, one person becomes uncaring or unemotional and the other person becomes needy or clingy in love.

Little Boy Politics

A little boy goes to his dad and asks, "What is politics?"

Dad says, "Well son, let me try to explain it this way: I'm the
breadwinner of the family, so let's call me Capitalism. Your Mom,
she's the administrator of the money, so we'll call her the
Government. We're here to take care of your needs, so we'll call you
the People. The nanny, we'll consider her the Working Class. And your
baby brother, we'll call him the Future. Now, think about that and
see if that makes sense."

So the little boy goes off to bed thinking about what Dad has said.
Later that night, he hears his baby brother crying, so he gets up to
check on him. He finds that the baby has severely soiled his diaper.
So the little boy goes to his parents' room and finds his mother sound
asleep. Not wanting to wake her, he goes to the nanny's room.
Finding the door locked, he peeks in the keyhole and sees his father in
bed with the nanny. He gives up and goes back to bed.

The next morning, the little boy says to his father, "Dad, I think I
understand the concept of politics now."

The father says, "Good, son, tell me in your own words what you
think politics is all about".

The little boy replies, "Well, while Capitalism is screwing the
Working Class, the Government is sound asleep, the People are
being ignored and the Future is in Deep Shit."

"A heart touching love story that 'll make u cry"...

"A heart touching love story that 'll make u cry"
10th Grade:-
As I sat there in English class,
I stared at the girl next to me.
She was my so called 'best friend'.
I stared at her long, silky hair,
and wished she was mine.
But she didn't notice me like that,
and I knew it.
After class,
she walked up to me and asked me for
the notes she had missed the day before.
I handed them to her.She said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her, I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
11th grade:-
The phone rang. On the other end,
it was her. She was in tears,
mumbling on and on about how
her love had broke her heart.
She asked me to come over
because she didn't want to be alone, So I did.
As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her
soft eyes, wishing she was mine.
After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie,
and three bags of chips,
she decided to go home.
She looked at me, said 'thanks'
and gave me a kiss
on the cheek..I want to tell her,
I want her to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.




Senior year:-
One fine day she walked to my locker.
"My date is sick" she said,
"hes not gonna go" well,
I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade,
we made a promise that
if neither of us had dates,
we would go together just as 'best friends'.
So we did.
That night, after everything was over,
I was standing at her front door step.
I stared at her as She smiled at me
and stared at me with her crystal eyes.
Then she said- "I had the best time, thanks!"
and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Graduation:-
A day passed, then a week, then a month.
Before I could blink, it was graduation day.
I watched as her perfect body
floated like an angel
up on stage to get her diploma.
I wanted her to be mine-but
she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it.
Before everyone went home,
she came to me in her smock and hat,
and cried as I hugged her.
Then she lifted her head from my shoulder
and said- 'you're my best friend,
thanks' and gave me a kiss on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Marriage:-
Now I sit in the pews of the church.
That girl is getting married now.
and drive off to her new life,
married to another man.
I wanted her to be mine,
but she didn't see me like that,
and I knew it.
But before she drove away,
she came to me and said 'you came !'.
She said 'thanks' and kissed me on the cheek.
I want to tell her,
I want her to know
that I don't want to be just friends,
I love her but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
Death:-
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin
of a girl who used to be my 'best friend'.
At the service, they read a diary entry
she had wrote in her high school years.
This is what it read:
'I stare at him wishing he was mine,
but he doesn't notice me like that,
and I know it.
I want to tell him,
I want him to know that
I don't want to be just friends,
I love him but I'm just too shy,
and I don't know why.
I wish he would tell me he loved me !
.........'I wish I did too...'

I thought to my self, and I cried.
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A Special Dinner

A Special Dinner

A Special Dinner

A man and a woman were having dinner in a fine restaurant.

Their waitress, taking another order at a table a few paces away
noticed that the man was slowly sliding down his chair and under
the table, with the woman acting unconcerned.  The waitress
watched as the man slid all the way down his chair and out of
sight under the table.
 
Still, the woman dining across from him appeared calm and
unruffled, apparently unaware that her dining companion had
disappeared.  After the waitress finished taking the order, she
came over to the table and said to the woman, "Pardon me, ma'am,
but I think your husband just slid under the table."

The woman calmly looked up at her and replied firmly, "No, he
didn't.  He just walked in the door."

The Genie

A man and his wife were playing golf. The man tees off and his
ball veers way off to the right, breaking the window of a house.
The wife says you must go and apologize and pay for the window.

Both the man and his wife walk up to the house, ring the door but
no one answers. He opens the door and inside, next to the window
he sees a broken vase with his golf ball laying on the floor.

Suddenly a man comes out of a nearby room, the golfer starts to
apologize for breaking his window and the vase.

The man inside the house says, "No, don't apologize, I am a genie
and have been stuck in that vase for 10,000 years, you have
rescued me and I owe you deeply. For helping me I will grant three
wishes. I will give you one, your lovely wife one and I would
like to keep one for myself."

He asks the man what he wishes for. The man thought awhile and
said, "I wish for a million dollars."

The genie waves his hand and said, "A million dollars, it's yours,
it has been deposited into your bank account."

He asks the wife what is her wish. She says, "I wish for a
condominium in Hawaii."

The genie waves his hand and says, "A condominium in Hawaii, it's
yours." The genie continues, "Now it is my turn." He thinks for
awhile and says, "You know its been 10,000 years since I have had
a woman, could I make love to your wife?"

The man thinks for a while and says, "Honey, he gave us a million
dollars and a condominium in Hawaii, the least you could do is
make love to him."

She agrees and they both go to the back bedroom.

After making passionate love, the woman says, "I can't believe
that my husband let you do this to me."

The genie says, "And I can't believe that your husband still
believes in genies.

Traveling on your Knees

Traveling on your Knees



Last night I took a journey
To a land across the seas.
I didn't go by ship or plane
I traveled on my knees.

I saw so many people there
In bondage to their sin,
And Jesus told me I should go,
That there were souls to win.

But I said "Jesus, I can't go
To lands across the seas."
He answered quickly, "Yes, you can
By traveling on your knees."

He said, "You pray, I'll meet the need.
You call, and I will hear.
It's up to you to be concerned
For lost souls far and near."

And so I did; knelt in prayer,
Gave up some hours of ease,
And with the Savior by my side,
I traveled on my knees.

As I prayed on, I saw souls saved
And twisted persons healed,
I saw God's workers strength renewed
While laboring in the field.

I said, "Yes Lord, I'll take the job.
Your heart I want to please.
I'll heed Your call and swiftly go
By traveling on my knees."

LOVE BIRDS (A very short love story)

‘The golden apple with a red shade along it’s curvature is slowly setting in Kashmir’s Dal lake sprinkling saffron across the expanse. Flock of birds form a ‘V’ shape and fly back to their nest silhouetting against the golden sun. Small stars show up here and there in the sky and twinkle, rather wink at you after a day long sleep to welcome the night and their queen of dark, the moon, who is faintly visible in the receding sun’s peach coloured rays.’

As she finished reading what she scribbled in the small writing pad, the handsome chocolate boy remarked,

“Wow! I never thought you could describe this dusk so beautifully, so poetic. I’m lucky to have a better half like you who can admire and vividly describe the beauty of nature”.

Saying this he sliced the placid Dal lake with the oars splitting the setting sun’s reflection that formed golden ripples and the shikara pulled forward through the lake slowly. A mild wind blew and she gently adjusted the strand of hair that disobediently fell over her rolling doe eyes, with the tip of her finger.

”Is it so? So sweet of you. Thank God at least now you appreciate & admire my writings. Never did during our college days and till now.”

“I always did, but never said it explicitly. I preferred to be your silent admirer. Because if I had admired and praised you a lot then, you would have stopped nurturing your talent. Since you consider my word as the final word. I wanted to see you grow and you did. And became a writer loved by millions. You have woken the poet in me too.”

“Really! let me hear.”

She tilted her head to the left and placed her cute chin inside her left palm. And they locked eyes with each other. The boy cleared his throat and sang.

 “Hum tum ek shikara mein bandh ho aur  raastha kho jaayeh” (Hindi song)

The girl plugged her ears with her fingers in distress, laughed and pleaded.

“Oh not again. I’m fed up listening to your parody songs since college. Please don’t sing at least now and spoil our honeymoon.”

The boy laughed and stopped singing. After a few seconds looking into the horizon he said.

”When you smile, a thousand roses bloom in your face. Your black, aromatic, curly tresses flow like a river. You are gentle like a musk deer and has sweetness that put a pudding to shame. When you frown and quarrel your cheeks go red, cute and pretty like an apple.When you sit by my side holding my arm and resting your head on my shoulder, I feel like heaven.Oh doe eyed beauty exuding serenity,you are my elixir of life. You are not my better half, you are my whole and soul. I love you.”

Saying this he looked straight into her cute eyes.

She raised her eyebrows and exulted in happiness.

”You…you love me so much?”

The boy nodded his head in agreement to her query.

“I can’t swim and this lake is deep. If this boat capsize and I drown, will you be my oxygen?”

The girl asked, expecting the boy to express his love for her again and to hear it once more, like the climax scene of Titanic movie.

The boy stared at her seriously and replied, “No,never”.

Her eyes protruded, her strawberry red luscious lips made a capital ‘O’ and her jaws dropped in awe, as if it almost said,

” What the hell are you saying? ”

A faint, wicked and mischievous smile played in his lips. He took her soft hands carefully like a flower in his and said,

“Why should I be your oxygen? When your heart is safe and secure in my heart and I breathe your oxygen. If I live, you live and if I don’t, still I’ll make sure you live happily.If possible,I will not let even death conquer you my sweetheart.”

She leaned over and collected some water in her palms and sprinkled the ice cold water on his face naughtily, in happiness.

”You are naughty and I too love you. I’m blessed to get a hubby like you”.

They hugged each other and gracing their cheeks,with arms over each other’s shoulder, they gazed at the purple night sky being decorated by colourful fire crackers, red green, pink, it went on illuminating the night sky. They wished each other Happy Diwali and continued their journey of trust and love in the shikara through the romantic Dal lake.

The way to propose a girl

Asking from a girl or propose to a girl is one of the main event of boys life. Of course, perhaps a girl might ask from a boy too. But as a percentage, those chances are very few. So confessing your love to a girl may be scary event. Actually there are not any basics here. Just follow your natural instinct. That is the best. But it may easy for you to have clues about it though.

Sometime it happens a guy hides his loving feelings for his (Girl) friend, until the point where she starts dating with a new guy. So, this may work in the movies a lot, but in real life, if you ever do something like that, you’re definitely setting yourself up for failure. If you feel love about a girl who is already a friend of yours, you have a good chance to go through this. But if you don’t know much about this girl yet, you have to do some efforts. 

If you don’t know about the girl, you have to approach her in a way or other. But remember that first impression is the most important. Is she someone you walk past occasionally? or she is around you on day to day life?Then it will be a warm smile with expressing good wishes (Ex: Good morning) at first. So this will lead to a chat in days for sure.

Keep remember that if you are having a chat, girls tend to look at your face, so don't immediately assume that she likes you. When you talk with her, look directly at her. While talking, make sure to look at her face and specifically her eyes. Pay more attention to what she is saying, so when she asks you something or stops talking, you can continue the conversation intelligently. Don't get caught staring at her body.  If she doesn't look at you or she ignores you, step back, and leave her alone for a while. Some girls don't like looking in the eyes and talking. Read her body language instead. And always remember to dress in well and clean. 

Make her feel comfortable around you, doing by good humor. Be very simple. Try to talk with some funny. Charm her and compliment her often. Let her see that you notice the little things about her that makes her pretty. If she’s wearing something nice, compliment her about it. If she looks great, tell her she looks really pretty.

If you feel she comfort with your association, Try to spend more times with her. if no one’s around, even better. In this way she will get more comfortable with you. Not only that, then she feels missing your company, when you are not around her. That’s a good sign. When you are not around her, try to call her, asking some advices and helps from her. Try to do things together. Let her know that being around her, is feels good you too. 

  
If you passed above steps and still that girl is being with you means, the girl you like would most probably really like you too. But just to make sure she likes you a lot in a more-than-just-friends call her late at night or text. You could start this by texting late in the evenings, and work your way to texts in bed within a few days.

So now give it a “go”. When the time is right, ask her for a date. Ask her to go the movies or something else you both would be interested in. You could also invite her out to restaurant for a lunch. Or after emotional conversation at a late night, you could ask for a date. Or when both of you are sitting next to each others on a bench.  Of course may be on a phone, if you a little shy guy. If she says "no", smile and respond gracefully by saying, "No problem! May be some other time." and change the conversation to something else.

Don’t try to confess your feelings for a girl until she begins to like you too. Shocking a girl with an unexpected confession of love is a worst thing you can do, because it’ll almost always end with her rejecting you. After all, confessing your love to a girl is the easy part. But if you want to avoid any kind of rejection and want to ensure that she’d say yes to you, do your way into your heart so she can actually like you and fall for you. When the moment’s right, pour your heart out to her and confess your love for her.

But you need to remember that the worst thing a girl could say is “no”. Of course, it’ll hurt. But think of it this way, by not telling a girl how you feel, you’re only making yourself feel miserable. And what would you do if another guy starts making a move on this girl you love?

Crazy Guy

One Day Morning, A Girl Send Message to Boy Friend..

Girl: Hi.. Good Morning

Boy: Hey.... Very Good Morning.. 

Girl : What are you doing ?

Boy : killing mosquitoes

Girl : how many did you killed ?

Boy : total 5 ( 3 female 2 male )

Girl : how did you know that ?

Boy : 3 sitting near mirror ,, 2 near beer

On That Day in CHEMISTRY CLASS

Professor: Chemical symbol of Barium?

Boy: BA

Professor: For sodium?

Boy: NA

Professor: What will we get if 1 atom of BA & 2 atoms of NA are combined?

Boy: BANANA !!!

Professor: ????????????

Evening, On The Way to Home, He Meets An Accident With His New Ferrari. ..

Policemen Arrives....

Boy:- (Cried) Officer! My Brand New Car!

Police Replied:- You're Such materialistic. You Even Haven't Notice That Your Left Arm Has Been Cut Off.

Boy (He Looks At His Left Arm And Yells) : OMG ! My Rolex Watch..! - 

Man vs Woman

Man saw COLORS & invented PAINT.

Woman got inspired from PAINT & invented MAKE-UP.

Man coined WORDS & invented CONVERSATION.

Woman got inspired from CONVERSATION & invented GOSSIP.

Man learned AGRICULTURE & invented FOOD.

Woman got inspired from FOOD & invented DIET.

Man discovered FRIENDSHIP & invented LOVE.

Woman got inspired from LOVE & invented ... LOVE TRIANGLES!

Man discovered TRADING & invented MONEY.

Woman got MONEY & started SHOPPING.

That's it!

Thereafter, man has invented lots of things.

And WOMEN are still SHOPPING! - 

Man and God

A man walking along a California beach was deep in prayer. 

All of a sudden he said out loud, "Lord grant me one wish." 

Suddenly the sky clouded above his head and in a booming voice the Lord said, "Because you have TRIED to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish".

The man said, "Build a bridge to Hawaii, so I can drive over anytime I want to." 

The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. 

Think of the logistics of that kind of undertaking. 

The supports required to reach the bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it would take! I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. 

Take a little more time and think of another wish, a wish you think would honor and glorify me."

The man thought about it for a long time. 

Finally he said, "Lord, I have been married and divorced four times. 

All of my wives said that I am uncaring and insensitive. 

I wish that I could understand women. 

I want to know how they feel inside, what they are thinking when they give me the silent treatment, why they cry, what they mean when they say "nothing" and how I can make a woman truly happy"

After a few minutes God said, "You want two lanes or four on that bridge?"

MOTHER BRINGS BABY BACK TO LIFE WITH TWO HOURS OF LOVING CUDDLES AFTER DOCTORS PRONOUNCE HIM DEAD

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It was a final chance to say goodbye for grieving mother Kate Ogg after doctors gave up hope of saving her premature baby. She tearfully told her lifeless son – born at 27 weeks weighing 2lb – how much she loved him and cuddled him tightly, not wanting to let him go. Although little Jamie’s twin sister Emily had been delivered successfully, doctors had given Mrs Ogg the news all mothers dread – that after 20 minutes of battling to get her son to breathe, they had declared him dead.

Having given up on a miracle, Mrs Ogg unwrapped the baby from his blanket and held him against her skin. And then an extraordinary thing happened. After two hours of being hugged, touched and spoken to by his mother, the little boy began showing signs of life.

At first, it was just a gasp for air that was dismissed by doctors as a reflex action. But then the startled mother fed him a little breast milk on her finger and he started breathing normally.

‘I thought, “Oh my God, what’s going on”,’ said Mrs Ogg. ‘A short time later he opened his eyes. It was a miracle. Then he held out his hand and grabbed my finger. ‘He opened his eyes and moved his head from side to side. The doctor kept shaking his head saying, “I don’t believe it, I don’t believe it”.’

The Australian mother spoke publicly for the first time yesterday to highlight the importance of skin-on-skin care for sick babies, which is being used at an increasing number of British hospitals.

In most cases, babies are rushed off to intensive care if there is a serious problem during the birth. But the ‘kangaroo care’ technique, named after the way kangaroos hold their young in a pouch next to their bodies, allows the mother to act as a human incubator to keep babies warm, stimulated and fed. Pre-term and low birth-weight babies treated with the skin-to-skin method have also been shown to have lower infection rates, less severe illness, improved sleep patterns and are at reduced risk of hypothermia.

Mrs Ogg and her husband David told how doctors gave up on saving their son after a three-hour labour in a Sydney hospital in March. The doctor asked me had we chosen a name for our son,’ said Mrs Ogg. ‘I said, “Jamie”, and he turned around with my son already wrapped up and said, “We’ve lost Jamie, he didn’t make it, sorry”.

‘It was the worse feeling I’ve ever felt. I unwrapped Jamie from his blanket. He was very limp. ‘I took my gown off and arranged him on my chest with his head over my arm and just held him. He wasn’t moving at all and we just started talking to him. ‘We told him what his name was and that he had a sister. We told him the things we wanted to do with him throughout his life.’

Jamie occasionally gasped for air, which doctors said was a reflex action. But then I felt him move as if he were startled, then he started gasping more and more regularly. ‘I gave Jamie some breast milk on my finger, he took it and started regular breathing.’

Mrs Ogg held her son, now five months old and fully recovered, as she spoke on the Australian TV show Today Tonight. Her husband added: ‘Luckily I’ve got a very strong, very smart wife. ‘She instinctively did what she did. If she hadn’t done that, Jamie probably wouldn’t be here.’ - See more at: http://inspireurfriend.blogspot.in/2013_07_01_archive.html#sthash.2fan5Fta.dpuf

DAD

A father passing by his son's bedroom was astonished to see that his bed was nicely made and everything was picked up. 

Then he saw an envelope, propped up prominently on the pillow that was addressed to 'Dad.' 

With the worst premonition he opened the envelope with trembling hands and read the letter.

Dear Dad,

It is with great regret and sorrow that I'm writing you. I had to elope with my new girlfriend because I wanted to avoid a scene with Mom and you. 

I have been finding real passion with Stacy and she is so nice. 

But I knew you would not approve of her because of all her piercing, tattoos, tight motorcycle clothes and the fact that she is much older than I am. 

But it's not only the passion...Dad, she's pregnant. Stacy said that we will be very happy.

She owns a trailer in the woods and has a stack of firewood for the whole winter. We share a dream of having many more children. 

Stacy has opened my eyes to the fact that marijuana doesn't really hurt anyone. We'll be growing it for ourselves and trading it with the other people that live nearby for cocaine and ecstasy.

In the meantime we will pray that science will find a cure for AIDS, so Stacy can get better. She deserves it. Don't worry Dad, I'm 15 and I know how to take care of myself. 

Someday I’m sure that we will be back to visit so that you can get to know your grandchildren.

Your Son,
Johnny

P.S. - Dad, none of the above is true. I'm over at Tommy's house.

I just wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than the report card that's in my center desk drawer. 

I love you. Call me when it's safe to come home.

♥A MOTHERS LOVE♥

A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper, and handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on. After his Mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:

For cutting the grass: $5.00
For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
For going to the store for you: $.50
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
Taking out the garbage: $1.00
For getting a good report card: $5.00
For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
Total owed: $14.75

Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he'd written on, and this is what she wrote:

For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me:
No Charge

For all the nights that I've sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge

For all the trying times, and all the tears that you've caused through the years:
No Charge

For all the nights that were filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge

For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge

Son, when you add it up, the cost of my love is:
No Charge.

When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked straight at his mother and said, "Mom, I sure do love you." And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote: "PAID IN FULL" - See more at: http://inspireurfriend.blogspot.in/p/dr-apj-abdul-kalam-quotes.html#sthash.WGu0dCqm.dpuf

BEST DIVORCE LETTER EVER

 Dear Wife,

I’m writing you this letter to tell you that I’m leaving you forever. I’ve been a good man to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for it. These last 2 weeks have been hell. ... 

Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today & that was the last straw. Last week, you came home & didn’t even notice I had a new haircut, had cooked your favorite meal & even wore a brand new pair of silk boxers. You ate in 2 minutes, & went straight to sleep after watching all of your soaps. 

You don’t tell me you love me anymore; you don’t want sex or anything that connects us as husband & wife. Either you’re cheating on me or you don’t love me anymore; whatever the case, I’m gone.

Your EX-Husband

P.S. don’t try to find me. Your SISTER & I are moving away to West Virginia together! Have a great life!

Dear Ex-Husband,

Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter. It’s true you & I have been married for 7 years, although a good man is a far cry from what you’ve been. I watch my soaps so much because they drown out your constant whining & griping Too bad that doesn’t work. 

I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the 1st thing that came to mind was ‘You look just like a girl!’ Since my mother raised me not to say anything if you can’t say something nice, I didn’t comment. And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY SISTER, because I stopped eating pork 7 years ago. 

About those new silk boxers: I turned away from you because the $49.99 price tag was still on them, & I prayed it was a coincidence that my sister had just borrowed $50 from me that morning. After all of this, I still loved you & felt we could work it out. So when I hit the lotto for 10 million dollars, I quit my job & bought us 2 tickets to Jamaica But when I got home you were gone.. 

Everything happens for a reason, I guess. I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that the letter you wrote ensures you won’t get a dime from me. So take care.

Signed, Your Ex-Wife, Rich As Hell & Free!

P.S. I don’t know if I ever told you this, but my sister Carla was born Carl. I hope that’s not a problem. 

The Amazing Love Story Of Katie Hill and Arin Andrews

 Two transgender teens found love and support in one another while transitioning. Arin Andrews and Katie Hill struggled with their gender identities throughout their childhoods, suffering from bullying and depression. But when the two met at a trans support group in Tulsa, Okla. after each had begun the transitioning process, they instantly fell in love and soon began an amazing journey together, the Huffington Post reports.

"All I saw was a handsome guy. We're perfect for each other because we both had the same troubles growing up," Hill told the Daily Mail of when she first met her boyfriend.

"We're both size five, so we even swap our old clothes our mom's bought us but we hated," she explained. "We look so convincing as a boy and a girl, nobody even notices now. We secretly feel so good about it because it's the way we've always wanted to be seen."

Katie, 19, whose father is a Marine colonel, spent the first 15 years of her life as Luke, the Daily Mail reports, while Arin, 17, was born a girl called Emerald who competed in beauty contests and danced ballet.

Today the two are now content with their new gender identities, but getting there was far from easy.

"I hated my breasts, I always felt like they didn't belong. Now I finally feel comfortable in my own body," Andrews told The Sun about surgically removing his breasts last month. "Now when I'm out in a public pool or lifting weights, no one raises an eyebrow. They just think I'm a guy...I can wear a tank top, which I couldn't before, and I can go swimming shirtless. I can just be a regular guy. And I'm so lucky to have my family and Katie to rely on."

"Being transgender myself, I understand Arin better than anybody else - how good he feels and how complete he feels," Hill said.

Hill suffered from depression for years before discovering that she was transgender. On an segment of "Inside Edition" last year, Hill said that as a child she was "bullied and abused. Ridiculed. Ashamed and embarrassed."

On her 15th birthday, Hill asked her parents for help in transitioning into Katie.

"Knowing what Katie went through for eight-plus years - there's nothing worse than watching your child suffer," Hill's mom, Jazzlyn, told Tulsa World. "It's still my baby - male or female, she's still my child. And I don't have to kneel at her grave."

Andrews's mother feels the same about her son, telling The Mirror that "seeing Katie go through her surgery was helpful to Arin."

"It was being around it and seeing her getting to transform," she said. "And being a couple at the time was I think just the cherry on the cake. Every transgender person would love to have the transformation physically because it just completes them as a person."